A 6-year-old city kid

Dear Maeve,

We are so proud of the little girl you are – talented, smart, loving, coordinated, and enthusiastic. We had such a happy summer, enjoying trips to Michigan, summer camps at Lill Street and the Nature Museum, and pool and beach dates with our friends, among our many adventures. You took your first (and then many!) jumps off the diving board, bravely running right off without hesitation. You also mastered riding your bike without training wheels!

You planned your whole birthday party, helping me pick out everything, from Belle on your cake and princess plates & piñata, to the art-themed activities and gifts for the guests! Your art work (especially your rainbows addressed to us and patterns) continues to inspire and impress us, and we promise to find ways to support and encourage your ability. Your confidence continued to blossom this year and it is such a joy to take you to the Chicago museums and attractions. Your current favs are the Shedd Aquarium, the zoos (Lincoln Park and Brookfield), and Garfield Park Conservatory. You walk around like you own the places!

You are now in Kindergarten and are adjusting so well already (despite the disruption of a 1.5 week strike). You are learning to navigate the school day and new routines, and Daddy and I are learning to navigate your new independence. I love that you still want me to hold your hand on the way to the door, but bravely go in without tears every day. I also love when you run off to play with Abby at pick-up without barely saying hello to me! We try to give you space and freedom of choices, but we are strict about manners and will always emphasize the importance of working hard. You can be quite a goofball though and continue to surprise us and make us laugh. We’ll eat you up we love you so!

You rocked your doctor’s appointments this week – only a flu mist and peeing in a cup at your check-up (no shots!) and were so brave during your teeth x-rays, which showed your 6-year molars hiding in there. The dentist told me that your bottom two front teeth and top two front teeth all are loose too! The tooth fairy is on alert. Check-up measurements: weight 38.5 lbs (10th); height 44.25″ (25-50th). We are so lucky to have our happy, healthy girl!

Love, Mommy and Daddy

3-year checkup

Drawing at the doc
Drawing at the doc

So we’re a bit overdue for the birthday checkup, but we got it done last night. A big appointment with many questions about Maeve’s recent behavior – but as usual Jennifer was wonderful and never made us feel rushed. I think we were there for almost an hour! Maeve is still growing very well (see measurements below) and was a very brave girl with her one shot and flu mist… but we have been dealing with some new and challenging 3-year-old behaviors that we wanted some advice with:

  • We have some success on the potty, but mostly resistance.
  • We have seen a resurgence of major separation issues, with school drop off primarily, but also with pretty much anyone who isn’t mommy.
  • We have instituted the use of the time-out chair for some occasional hitting and a few other unacceptable behaviors.

We know this is all very normal for her age, but it’s not what we’re used to from our Maeve! Overall, she was a very patient patient and did some nice drawings for Jennifer while we talked about her (and no doubt understood everything we were saying!).

Measurements:
Weight: 28 1/2 lbs. (25th percentile)
Length: 37″ (50th percentile)

In the past few weeks, we have enjoyed more than just challenging behavior though… We had wonderful visits with family and friends around Maeve’s birthday, and have enjoyed several other friends’ birthday parties as well. We got to spend an afternoon babysitting Lucy, who is a very busy 9-month-old already! We also participated in Read for the Record – helping to set a world record for the most children reading The Very Hungry Caterpillar on the same day. And Maeve and I had some fun outings to the Skydeck at the Sears Tower and the Museum of Science & Industry. Although I have been behind with my updates, I have kept the pictures in the gallery up-to-date… Enjoy!

1st Dentist appointment

Today was our first visit to Pine Dental to meet Dr. Meredith. Maeve was very brave and did a great job! She has 18 teeth – 10 on the bottom and 8 on top (waiting on back molars). She sat on my lap the whole time and after she chose a yellow tooth brush and blue cotton candy flavored tooth paste, she let Dr. Meredith brush and count her teeth. She even let her use the water sprayer in her mouth which was super cute! Maeve got some “Magic Elmo Sparkles” painted on her teeth with a little brush (no spinning one this time) and then got to pick out 3 stickers – she seemed pretty excited about the whole thing. What a great first experience!

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Maeve’s half-birthday – 30 months today

We are not officially celebrating Maeve turning 2 1/2 today, but I feel like celebrating! The sun is shining, Maeve just ate a whole bowl of chicken soup with minimal bribing, and she completely rocked her check-up with Jennifer today. She cried just a bit when we got there and she realized that she had to strip down today (versus previous visits where we were just doing ear checks). After we got out a few of the doctor kit items we brought, our favorite pal Pig, and some shamrock stickers (thanks Aunt Katie and Aunt Megan!) she sat patiently while I asked all our questions. She lasted the rest of the exam with NO CRYING (a first, for sure) and even asked Jennifer to walk out with her to get her sticker just like last time! Of course, it helped all of us that she wasn’t due for any vaccinations today…

Measurements:

Weight: 26 lbs. 11 oz. (25th percentile) – 3 whole pounds and up from the 5th and 10th!
Length: 35″ (50th percentile)
Head: 19 3/4″ (90th percentile)

We had a fun morning jumping around at Pump-it-Up before her appointment today and Maeve braved the slides by herself. She is saying the greatest things now that demonstrate that she knows things – of course these aren’t things we’ve taught her but she seems to have figured out on her own… examples include knowing when she is in the shade or the sun (and asking for something to block the light for “shade” in the bathroom); she also responded with “like a boat” when I said she was floating in the bathtub. We are constantly astounded and of course beaming with pride!

Congratulations go out to our friends Paula and Mark who welcomed their baby boy, Ryan James, on St. Patrick’s Day this week! Maeve is excited to meet him and said “He’s very cute” when she saw his picture… We are off to Grandma’s this weekend after playgroup and art class tomorrow. Hope this Spring weather decides to stick around!

24 month check-up

Last night was Maeve’s 2-year-old check-up and she was such a trooper! She was very anxious when she realized where we were and begged to go home, but managed to hold it together while we went through our list of questions with Jennifer. Everything checked out very well and Maeve only had to get one shot since the flu shot is now a mist! She was so polite through her tears, saying “good-bye” and “thanks” to both Jennifer and the nurse with the shot – trying to get them to leave quicker I think! – and even said “see you soon” to them…it was adorable.

Measurements:
Weight: 23 lbs. 13 oz. (10th percentile)
Length: 34″ (50th percentile)
Head: 19 1/4″ (75th percentile)

18 month check-up

Tonight, Maeve survived the ugly weather and her MMR shot. She remembered immediately upon arrival that these visits don’t end well, so she was too scared and upset to show off her 30+ words, social development, or physical advances. She was very brave though, and pretty excited about her Elmo and Dora stickers! Maeve’s weight gain was her biggest achievement – she is finally over 20 pounds and Nanna had the closest guess with 20 lbs. 15 oz.!

Measurements:

Weight: 20 lbs. 13 oz. (5th-10th percentile)

Length: 32″ (50th percentile)

Head: 18 3/4″ (75th percentile)

Mommy and Maeve are off to the Nature Museum tomorrow morning – hopefully it’s not still snowing. Nanna, Aunt Peggy and Aunt Heather are all visiting G.G. and Aunt Nancy this week in the warm, sunny Bahamas – we are jealous and we wish G.G. a very happy birthday this weekend!

15 months this week!

Maeve had a good checkup tonight and got high marks for her emerging communication skills and advancing physical capabilities. She is teething right now and it seems to be a bit painful for her – all molars appear to be coming in at once! Aunt Heather had the closest guess on Maeve’s weight…she is still tracking on the low end of the curve because as Aunt Heather predicted, “if she’s running about, she’s walking off her gains!”

Measurements:

Weight: 18 lbs. 12 oz. (5th percentile)

Length: 30.5″ (50th percentile)

Head: 18 1/2″ (75th percentile)

Happy Halloween

Maeve was an adorable snail this weekend at her playgroup and friends’ Halloween parties! 

Maeve as snailCrawling snail

She is fighting a cold now, but she was a trooper at her check-up Monday night. She got her flu booster shot and we found out that she gained a whole pound! She’s up to 18 lbs.  4 oz.  Maeve started blowing kisses this week too and has a new tooth (her 7th; a molar) coming in. We’re looking forward to our trip to visit Grandnana and Aunt Nancy next week!

Unfortunately, we also got some very sad news this week when we learned that our beloved Aunt Julie (my dad’s youngest sister) passed away. She was one of my very early examples of a great mom and she offered me my first opportunities to pretend to be one to her kids – I have such wonderful memories of visiting with her when her babies were little and of her trusting me to take good care of my young cousins. I also have the happy times with Aunt Julie at our family holiday gatherings and, most recently, at my own and my cousins’ weddings to cherish as well. She had the most beautiful smile and an infectious laugh.

I miss her very much.

Aunt Julie

12 month check-up and birthday update

So Maeve had quite a day yesterday – she got new toys to play with, she attended music class with Zlatka, and then she woke up from her afternoon nap to a surprise visit from Nanna and Grandad! She was very surprised and excited to see them (as were we – they even showed up with dinner and wine!) and we all had a fun birthday visit. Pictures are up…

Maeve with birthday cakeZlatka with the AltmansSurprise! It’s Nanna and Grandad.

Tonight was Maeve’s 12-month check-up and she was very brave for her shots. She got high marks for being very active and more advanced in her gross motor skills. She did not get as high marks on her growth… We were assured that she is eating/drinking very well and that her lack of significant weight gain is likely due to her activity level and her parents’ scrawny genes. But we will be adding some calories to her diet to see if we can bring back some of those adorable baby pudge rolls!

Measurements:

Weight: 17 lbs. 5 oz. (5th percentile)

Length: 29″ (50th percentile)

Head: 18 1/8″ (75th percentile)

9 month check-up

Weight – 16 lbs. 15 oz. (Grandad and Aunt Peggy were equally distributed on either side with their guesses – congratulations!)

Length – 27 1/2″

Head – 17 3/4″

Nanna accompanied us to the pediatrician tonight for our well-baby visit with Daddy out of town for work. We got a great report and Maeve is right on target developmentally! Her doctor was very impressed with her many abilities, including how she turns the pages of her books!